• Alex recently reminded me that I should romanticize my life…. I was describing how there are times when I catch myself making dinner, reading or folding laundry and it’s dead silent and often relatively dark or low light (cause who needs big lights when you’ve got natural light) and she reminded me that YouTube Ambiance is a thing! As one does, we proceeded to share links back and forth for some really great ambiance videos which we’re gonna share with you dear reader (any Bridgerton fans reading this??).

    Here are a few to get you started… Alex promises to provide more of her favorites ASAP and I’ll add ’em to the list!

    For Reading:

    Summer Mornings:

    Summer Evenings:

    Evening Chill:

    Some other ways I add vibes and ambiance in my space include making my bed every morning (its important, I swear!!), having all the windows open, Govee light strips (above the kitchen cabinets and behind the tv), bulbs and lamps everywhere (death to big lights), plants…. all the plants, soft blankets and pillows of all colors, and rainbow prism window cling film. Looking for inspiration? Here are a few instagram accounts I love!

  • Last night, my bestie and I went to our first ever rodeo! It was heart pounding and jaw dropping…. we screamed our heads off along with a whole arena full of spectators. From mutton bustin to bareback riding (aka bucking broncos), barrel racing to bull riding, we saw it all. The outfits were fabulous, the music was on point and the whole experience was an absolute vibe. Eight Seconds Rodeo “celebrates the cowboys of today and the legacy of Black rodeo”, cultivating community and love of the land. It was an honor to join the community for a night and I hope to be back next year!

    The crazy part? I’m in the middle of a cowboy romance right now! While Braving the Storm is more cowboy rancher and not rodeo cowboy, it still is quite fitting and a lovely coincidence. I’ve read a few cowboy romances and in making the list of series below, I’ve come to realize they’re all by Elsie Silver. LOL But I love Elsie Silver and so should you. Most of what I’ve learned about rodeo comes from her Chestnut Springs series and while it sounds silly, it was pretty legit. For one, I learned about how most athletes on the circuit are actually quite young, which was definitely proven at the rodeo last night. The feeling of being at a rodeo and watching a bull fly around an arena with someone holding on for dear life was riveting and I got my first taste of that feeling in Elsie’s books. Her accuracy and ability to portray the fear, excitement, anxiety, and rush that a rodeo brings is outstanding. Give one (or all) of them a try!

    • Gold Rush Ranch
      • Horse racing
    • Chestnut Springs
      • Bull riding
      • Rancher
    • Honorable mention- The Rose Hill series is less cowboy and more small town romance but is still a chefs kiss.

    Cowboy books on my TBR:

    • Cash, Jessica Peterson
    • Done and Dusted, Lyla Sage
    • Buckled in Barbwire, Harloe Rae
    • Cowboy Casual, Holly Renee
    • A Cowboy in the Streets, Elizabeth Bright
    • Alive and Wells, Bailey Hannah
    • Rein Me In, Kayla Grosse
    • The Badge (a mafia cowboy romance), Lena Hendrix

    If you prefer to watch your cowboys on screen, here are a couple recs for shows & a movie!

    • Ransom Canyon on Netflix (all the great romance vibes, not so much rodeo)
    • Yellowstone on Peacock & Apple TV (drama, suspense, not so much rodeo)
    • Walker on Max (drama, suspense, not so much rodeo)
    • Godless on Netflix (badass frontier women)
    • The Longest Ride on Netflix (rodeo romance)

    Check out the Eight Seconds Rodeo HERE

  • Crazy to think that someone who’s read every single day for the past *726 days* would have a smaller TBR than I do, but damn that thing just keeps growing! I purchased my Kindle in May 2022 in preparation for an off-the-grid motorcycle trip with my dad the following month. I met him in Canada and we rode and camped through the Yukon and around Alaska for 2 weeks. Knowing cell service would be very spotty and physical books would take up room we didn’t have to spare, I went out and purchased a Kindle and immediately subscribed to Kindle Unlimited. Exactly 3 years later, I can say with absolute certainty that that was the best decision I’ve ever made. For those who don’t know, KU is essentially a library of hundreds of thousands of books that you have at your fingertips for a mere $12/month subscription. If you’re anything like me and read at least 1 book a month, that basically pays for itself! TBH that’s probably not the right saying here but you catch my drift- that’s the cost of a single physical book at your local book store. Granted, I do love supporting local and hope to actually own a book store one day, but KU offers an avenue for indie authors to circumvent the traditional publishing path. Whether they can’t afford that route, are turned away by publishers cause what they wrote about didn’t vibe with the person reading it, whatever reason it may be, KU is an opportunity for authors and readers alike to try something new without a big impact.

    With KU, I downloaded a handful of books and started my journey into the world of smut on that motorcycle trip and with one of my (now) favorite authors- K.F. Breene. I read 4 completed series and started a 5th (incomplete) series by her that year. If you’re wondering “Who is K.F. Breene” and/or “What should I read next?”, I urge you to dive into any of the series listed below. They all happen to be some of my favorite series and also in some of my favorite categories of smut- urban fantasy and romantasy. I can promise you that… they’re cheeky, often laugh-out-loud funny, sexy, and just an absolute adventure! Hopefully you end up just as obsessed as I am. ❤

    **reading streak as of 6/14/25

    Demon Days, Vampire Nights

    Deliciously Dark Fairytales

    Demigods of San Francisco

    Braving the Elements

    Leveling Up